Little Boys, Big Sacramento Kings Dreams
(A16 - One of the best Fanposts of the year. Stefanie reminds all of us why we continue to fight, why we continue to cheer. We're not doing it just for us, but for future generations of Kings fans as well.)
I am a mom of sports fanatics! Instead of cartoons in the morning, I wake up to the sounds of Sports Center and ESPN recaps. I will occasionally wake up to one of my kids jumping on my bed because they can not wait to tell me the final scores to ALL of the games from the night prior. I knew that this was bound to happen with boys, but I had no idea it would be this early in life. You see, my boys are only 4 and 7!
I grew up on the San Francisco 49ers, and the Giants, but basketball was not something I kept up on UNTIL I moved to Sacramento for college. I moved here in 1999, and anyone that lives in Sacramento will tell you that it is impossible to live here and not follow the Sacramento Kings. I found myself not only watching games, but going to restaurants and local bars to cheer on the team, and even going to a few games every season. I still would not fall into the category as a die hard basketball fan, but my boys are another story.
Now that they are old enough to play, they are in love with basketball. Last year was their first year of playing on a team, and it would be safe to say that they eat, breath, and sleep basketball. We have a hoop in the living room, on the bathroom door, bedroom door, and hall way. Balls are flying through my living room at all hours of the day, and the tile area of our floors are often used to practice bouncing in the winter time.
We have lived in Natomas the past 2 years, so it has been even easier to follow the Kings considering we are right down the street.Every time we drive by Arco (sorry, bad habit, I know it has a new name), my boys will roll down their window and yell, "Go Kings!" They have foam fingers on their bed posts, a Kings bobble head that they insist stays in the living room for all to see, and my youngest runs around the house in a little lion costume with his jersey over it. He loves to be called Little Slamson. My oldest son dreams of being in the NBA one day, or at the least becoming a sports commentator. He will spark up a conversation with anyone that is willing to talk sports with him, especially if he sees someone wearing Kings gear.
Unfortunately we were not able to make it to more than one game this year due to finances, but the boys followed via the television.They watched when they won, and they watched when they lost. I even tried to persuade them to root for the Warriors so that they would be prepared next year if the Kings left, but they kindly declined the thought. I guess we were contradicting our "fan for life" way of preaching now that I think of it.
As an adult it is frustrating to watch team owners that are doing everything in their power to leave. I have become tired of the politics, and overwhelmed by the games that are being played, and I'm not talking about the games being played on the court.. I began losing my interest in the team about half way through the season, that is until I realized just how much a simple game of basketball, along with the Sacramento Kings can mean to 2 little boys.
My oldest goes by J.T. and he was so excited to hear that Jason Thompson would be signing autographs last month, so we went. I was shocked when I heard that my 7 year old wanted to write a letter to the Maloofs and give it to Jason Thompson in hopes that he would pass it on to the owners. He sat down and put a lot of thought into his letter. It was then that I realized just how much this team meant to my kids. I watched the excitement in the eyes of my children and was instantly taken back to when I was a child myself. I could feel their passion. I remembered what it felt like to dream big dreams, and really believe that anything was possible. Here was my 7 year old giving a hand written letter to an NBA basketball player, and he truly believed that he could make a difference simply by using his words. He made me proud, but a different emotion began to consume me.
I was filled with confusion. How in the heck did I go from that little dreamer to a pessimist that hoped for the best, but prepared myself for the worst? I guess the world just has a way of sucking you dry as you become older, and it is such a shame. We get so caught up in the politics of it all, that we miss the magic that is taking place around us. At that moment, I realized that I have a choice. I can throw my hands up and walk away, or I can hold my hands up with a Sacramento Kings foam finger on it and cheer with my children, even if that means doing it to the bitter end.
A few weeks have gone by since the signing, but today I was caught off guard in the grocery store when my 4 year old tapped on my leg and pointed a few feet away. There to my surprise was Jason Thompson standing in line for a Jamba Juice at the grocery store. My son was so shy that he did not talk much, but Jason tenderly bent down to his level, and had a full conversation with my son. I doubt he even realized how much this meant to me at that moment, but it is something that I will never forget. He wanted to see my 4 year old jump, and asked him if he could dunk. At the end of the season my 4 year old was still too short to get the ball up in the net. He was discouraged, but as of today, he is a different kid. In his mind, a real NBA player thought he could dunk, and because of that, he is already talking about next season when he gets a little taller.
Today there is a twinkle in my little boy's eyes. He is currently running around in the backyard with his brother and his basketball, and I am certain that in their little minds, they are pretending to be center court at Arco Arena in front of thousands of fans. They are working together to make the winning shot, and instead of sitting on the couch typing, their mama is watching them from the stands and cheering them on. I can guarantee that they are NOT in a Royals jersey, and they are NOT in Southern California. They are wearing purple, black and white, and they are playing for the SACRAMENTO Kings.
All I can do now, is wait with the rest of you, and hope that maybe the Maloofs will have a change of heart, and realize that there are still fans out there that really want them to stay. It may have taken a 4 and 7 year old to keep me rooting them on, but if they can keep a mom that never really watched basketball before cheering, I have to believe they could convince anyone to keep cheering for SACRAMENTO. That includes the Maloofs.
Joe and Gavin, if you are reading this, please take a second and try and remember what it was like to be 4 and 7. You have 2 of the littlest, yet biggest fans right outside your door. You not only have them, but there are more of us that want you to stay EVEN with a losing record. We have stuck by you, even though you have filed paperwork. We are asking you to stay, even when you are thinking of leaving. You can't put a price tag on faithfulness. We want to ride out the storm, and cheer on the players. We really hope you will reconsider.
I may be partial because this is my home, but even the players will tell you that you won't find more loyal fans. Maybe, just maybe that should be reason enough for you to stay. HERE WE STAY! SACRAMENTO KINGS!
(This is a FanPost from a member of the Sactown Royalty community. The views expressed come from the member, and not Sactown Royalty staff.)
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I cried.
I hope the Maloofs read this somehow.
In these times, you have to be an optimist to open your eyes when you awake in the morning.
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by PurpleLoco on Apr 4, 2011 7:35 PM PDT reply actions 1 recs
Wow.
These are not usually the type of posts I end up reading but this one just straight up reeled me in. Don’t even know how to respond. Rec’d.
Live every week like it's Shark Week.
True to the heart
Phenomenal job! I took my four boys yesterday, to hopefully not their last Kings games, and I can’t explain what it was like to see all my little ones (all under 7…gulp) cheer, jump and scream with such innocence. It broke my heart to think that I might not get to do this as they grow up.
Email me about the game, I’m gonna call my rep tomorrow and try my best to get you tix for your boys and you. I want you to experience a feeling that I can’t begin to describe.
Your post was amazing and shows why Sacramento has the best fans on the planet!
by soccerbum26 on Apr 4, 2011 8:04 PM PDT reply actions 8 recs
Stefanie
Please email me at eduardo_m7@hotmail.com. I’m pretty involved with Here We Stay and live in Natomas. Would love to help you guys too. Shoot me a line when you get a chance and we’ll get in touch. Thanks!
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by edm7 on Apr 4, 2011 8:31 PM PDT reply actions 7 recs
Stefanie:
Can you print this and send it to the Maloofs at Arco? Send them pictures of your kids too. That’s the only way for them to see it. :) Thanks for sharing.
by Scott Section 213 on Apr 4, 2011 8:38 PM PDT reply actions
Makes me flashback 7 years ago.
When I was 5. I really hope your kids will get to see the Kings blossom in SACRAMENTO.
"Keep a positive outlook, even when things are looking bleak. Remember, nothing is impossible."
Rec'd
From one mom to another.
Even though the voices aren't real, they have some pretty good ideas!
by LeaguePassAddict on Apr 4, 2011 8:59 PM PDT reply actions
No one makes me cry my own tears
I think one of the worst things about this potential relocation is that I may never get to take my 17 month old to a Kings game. I’ll have to take him to baseball games or shudder football games. But not basketball. That saddens me.
"What the fuck did I do?" - McNulty
Great post, makes me tear up as well.
My seven year old daughter told an older boy at school (who was wearing a Kobe jersey) that she roots for the Kings instead of the Lakers.
…and the older kid laughed at her and said the Kings play hockey not basketball. My daughter was confused and sad tonight until I showed her that the boy didn’t know as much about basketball as she did.
She then said that going to the game with all my friends (STR game night last year) was her favorite game that she has ever been too and she hope the next time we go to Sacramento to visit her cousins that we will get to go to another Kings game.
I hope so too…
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by SactownheartOChouse on Apr 4, 2011 9:09 PM PDT up reply actions 3 recs
One of my biggest dreams
is taking a future son or daughter of mine to a Sacramento Kings game, like my dad did. Its perhaps one of the biggest reasons I keep fighting for this team.
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Right there with you
I wish I could take my son to see the Sacramento Kings when he gets older.
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Excellent, excellent fanpost Stefanie.
This should be required reading for those who ask why do we still fight? Why do we not let go?
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Glad you made this front page
a must read. I’d rec this again, if I could.
Dunking Dutchman - betting that Omri will have at least 12 games with 85% TS% this season.
When I saw this I tweeted it to the Maloofs and the twitter world
Definitely needs to be read.
Thanks for writing it.
by chenp22 on Apr 5, 2011 4:37 AM PDT reply actions 5 recs
Awesome post Stefanie
I’m going through the same thing with my 6 year old son now. He’s really into sports now and has been playing soccer and baseball, and wants to play basketball this season. I’ve taken him to half a dozen or so games, and he loves them. He’s confused about them possibly moving, and it’s hard to explain to a 6 year old. I hate the thought of not being able to take him to games anymore. I was hoping to become a season ticket holder within the next 2 seasons. I hope that can still happen.
Good Stuff Stefanie
Going through the same thing with my boys…. Confusing what to tell them when it is confusing to myself.
Not knowing what the future holds is unsettling….. but one thing is for sure they wont be able to take away the memories that my kids or myself had while the Kings were in Sacramento…
by KingsFanNoMatterWhat on Apr 5, 2011 6:48 AM PDT reply actions
Send it as a 'Special to the Bee' submission
This type of article needs to be shared with the City, the region.
Who wouldn’t get it?
"But screw your courage to the sticking place - and we'll not fail"
Macbeth Act I, Sc VII
by lietothegirls on Apr 5, 2011 8:20 AM PDT reply actions 1 recs
I played around with the Sac Bee website, couldn’t figure out where to send it to. If someone knows, I would be more than happy to pass it on. Thanks for all of your comments, I had no idea so many would read it. Kind of for my own selfish therapy. LOL! Still more than happy to share!
Stef
by Stefanie Norlin-Lund on Apr 6, 2011 11:49 AM PDT up reply actions
Stefanie
The Bee invites letters and longer opinion articles. To have a letter or Op-Ed article considered for publication you must include your:
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To send a letter to the editor, click here.
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Read more: http://www.sacbee.com/2006/09/07/19641/letters-to-the-editor-and-opinion.html#ixzz1In7fabcT
Link to the page I found this on:
http://www.sacbee.com/2006/09/07/19641/letters-to-the-editor-and-opinion.html
"But screw your courage to the sticking place - and we'll not fail"
Macbeth Act I, Sc VII
by lietothegirls on Apr 6, 2011 5:09 PM PDT up reply actions
My son and the Kings...
When he was 2, we were at Christmas Eve Mass at the Cathedral of the Blessed Sacrament in Sac. When the three Kings from the children’s play came in, he shouted at the top of his lungs “GO KINGS! GO KINGS!”
He is 12 now and his room is covered with Kings gear – fathead on the wall, sheets and bed spread, photos. All collected over the span of his life. He still has the same level of passion.
We were fortunate and could afford to be season ticket holders for many years. I travel a lot for business and I worked my schedule around the games, so the Kings were our thing that only he and I did. No sharing with his little sister or having to tolerate her. The games gave me time to be with him. The best time.
by STH114 on Apr 5, 2011 8:27 AM PDT reply actions 1 recs
great article
I hope the Kings will stay so your boys have some of the same experiences I’ve had growing up.
The Kings moved here when I was 2, and for as long as I can remember I rooted for some of the worst teams assembled in Sacramento (just like your two boys). But that made it even sweeter as into highschool the Kings started to make regular trips to the playoffs, and seemed to progress a little further every year. In highschool it was playoff matchups against the Sonics and Jazz, and when I graduated the Kings graduated to playoff matchups with the Lakers. I remember kicking chairs at work when I was 18 as Horry’s 3 pointer fell, and remember going deaf when I attended game 2, one of the loudeset arenas I’ve ever been in.
After that year I took my fanhood down to Santa Barbara, and even dressed up as Doug Christie for Halloween with a little Rick Fox hanging from a noose on my wrist. I loved talking shit with Lakers fans down there, and held my head high regardless of the title count. Now I’ve been back for a few years and back to going to as many Kings games as I can. between 2008-2010 I went to something like 13 straight home losses, but always couldn’t wait to go to the next game.
Now I’m about to get married and kids will soon follow, and it absolutely kills me to think that I won’t get to share my love for Kings with my kids, and take them to games. It’s a worse feeling than any breakup I’ve ever had. And thats the only analogy I could come up with to explain to my fiancee just what torture I’m going through.
I live for Kings basketball, as many of you on this site do. And I can say it is the greatest group of fans on the planet, not to mention some of the smartest fans. STR regulars know more about the Kings and it’s history than the Maloofs do I think. I wish we could be like the GB Packers and all own a share in the team :) So I look forward to seeing you all at the last two home games, and hopefully it won’t be our last two ever. Look for me down front in my 80s powder blue Kings jacket and screaming my ass off. I don’t post often, but I enjoy reading all of yours. So thanks for making this site legit.
:'D
Great Post.
"Contraction, I didn't say anything about contraction. I'm talking about shrinking the league." - Lebron James
"We're talking about Kwame Brown, who cares?" - Stephen A. Smith
Thanks for this
It reminds me again why I love the Kings so much. I really do hope I get to take my son to games when he is a little bit older.
I know we're gonna lose but I still think we're gonna win.
Wonderful post
Unfortunately if this kind of thing meant anything to the maloofs we wouldn’t be at 11:59 with our team
by lchristmas on Apr 5, 2011 12:22 PM PDT via mobile reply actions
Great post, thank you for this wonderful and touching read. If I could rec this a million times I would in a heartbeat.
Your 2 sons reminded me of myself when I was a youngster.
heartbreaking
my son is not yet two, so has no interest in basketball yet, but it is gut-wrenching to me that he could grow up without a local NBA team to root for. i have long dreamed of one day owning season tickets and taking a son to every single home game.
Somebody get these kids some tickets
I wish I had money to contribute. I spent the little bit we had on my ticket to the Monday game. If I could I’d buy them all tickets.
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Lovely Post!
Seeing things from the eyes of a child always puts it in perspective.
"You need to get real!"
by MJ5 on Apr 5, 2011 4:42 PM PDT up reply actions
Such a great story!
My daughter is almost 2 now and wears a Kings warmup when we go to games. She can recognize the Kings on TV and can almost throw a basketball into the little hoop I bought her. I only hope that when she reaches your kids ages and can appreciate the team as much as they do, she will still have a team by the name of Kings to cheer for. I"m hopeful.
by Sactown's Finest on Apr 5, 2011 4:49 PM PDT reply actions
Thanks for the info. sent it in, we will have to see what happens. ;)
Stef
by Stefanie Norlin-Lund on Apr 7, 2011 8:58 AM PDT reply actions



















