Heroes and Minor Villains
My wife doesn't really understand why I obsess about basketball the way that I do. She supports me and she's never complained about it, but I know she doesn't understand it. In fairness to her, I find it difficult to explain. I've loved basketball since elementary school, when it was the game of choice in the playground. But something fun at recess doesn't usually carry over into adult life. After all, I don't blog about freeze tag.
(Note to self: Start blogging about freeze tag.)
I love basketball. I understand basketball. But most of all, basketball serves as a distraction. I've always been someone who worries about things. There are days when I make the mistake of reading the news, and I'm overcome with so much dread and worry that I can barely function. I worry about the state of our country, our economy, and the senseless tragedies that fill the 24 hour news cycle. It sickens me. I worry about the world I brought my son into. I'm afraid of the terrible things that happen and the terrible people who exist. It scares the hell out of me.
I obsess about basketball because it provides an escape. Sometimes basketball crosses over into the real world. Sometimes we have to hear about alleged rapes and scandals about computer hacking, but these are rare. Our most common villains are players with bad attitudes who don't try as hard as we would like them to or who don't appreciate what they have. Our villains are greedy owners and players who are trying to negotiate a collective bargaining agreement that serves their interests and might cause us to miss a few games of our favorite distraction. These are our villains, and that's OK because in the grand scheme of things they are minor villains.
Beyond the minor villains, basketball gives us heroes. The joy I felt last season when Tyreke Evans hit a half-court buzzer-beater to beat the Grizzlies was an incredible high. It offered a distraction from anything that was wrong in the world. But there are heroes in other lights as well. In the midst of a lockout, with future paychecks uncertain, Ron Artest (once an on-court villain) announced he'd be giving half a million dollars to charity over the next two days. This wasn't in response to anything other than, perhaps, getting voted off of Dancing with the Stars. This is also the guy who just changed his name in an effort to promote World Peace.
This morning I read a story by SLAM on Delonte West. He's been maligned, and painted as the villain in recent seasons. But then I read this part of the story:
One of the smallest boys in the room raises his hand and, after being called on, shyly asks, "Do you know any other basketball players?"
"I know too many basketball players," West says, walking toward the camper. "Do you play?" The boy, Andrew, nods meekly. "Well," West answers, "now I know one more."
As the little man smiles and as the counselors clap and the campers cheer, West takes the boy’s hand in his and says, "See this hand here? This hand has shook with Michael Jordan, LeBron James, Kobe Bryant, Kevin Garnett…and now it’s shaken yours, too." Andrew’s face couldn’t contain his pride at that moment.
That gave me chills. CNN and Fox News and the rest of the 24 hour news channels don't have stories like that. Sure, they throw in their puff pieces, but they never explore subjects in-depth. They need to hurry up and get back to people yelling at one another. This isn't about political affiliations, I can't watch any of those channels. I'd rather read about Delonte West doing good things for kids and speaking out to raise awareness of bi-polar disorder. I'd rather read about good people.
Perhaps I'm burying my head in the sand and ignoring the real world. Perhaps I should spend a little more time on current events and little less time on basketball. But I prefer my heroes and my minor villains.
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Great stuff.
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by Aykis16 on Sep 21, 2011 10:01 AM PDT reply actions 4 recs
Awesome.
This is really great. Make sure to send it to the wife. Maybe she’ll understand.
by Carl on Sep 21, 2011 10:02 AM PDT reply actions 2 recs
Great piece, Ex.
I also read the piece you linked by SLAM, and suddenly feel like a really awful person for making so many jokes at Delonte West’s expense. Reminds me a little of our own Big Cuz when it comes to public perception vs. off-court reality.
I cannot agree with those who rank modesty among the virtues. To the logician all things should be seen exactly as they are, and to underestimate one’s self is as much a departure from truth as to exaggerate one’s own powers.
--Holmes, on Modesty
Great piece, G
I’m a worrier too, and it’s so great to have basketball (hell, all sports) as an escape. Tyreke’s buzzer beater was so damn epic, and I still get chills when I watch it. I’ll never forget the incredible goal by Abby Wambach in the World Cup this summer to get us to a shoot-out against Brazil at basically the last possible second. I’ll always remember the elation when a guy who went to my high school won the Super Bowl MVP. Being in Germany when the final match of the 2006 World Cup was being played was unreal, as was being in Paris when France advanced to the quarterfinals. Hell, even getting a high five from Ray Allen this summer was sweet. Sports are the best way to take a step back from reality and just take time to yourself.
This is why the lockout needs to end ASAP.
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Nice work G
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by caseycheesecake on Sep 21, 2011 11:28 AM PDT reply actions
Well done G.
Excellent piece…
...Watching DeMarcus Cousins’ transformation from large human to immortal kill beast...
News...? We don't get news.
We get media packaged in a “news” format that is nothing more than entertainment. With entertainment being what their focus groups have determined will keep people from changing the channel.
Really interesting stuff you might like is some current sociology on the construction of social problems. It deals with how media actually creates and defines the problems in their reporting… Rather than reporting the problems.
News? We don’t get news… Some call it propaganda. I just think it is meant as sick and twisted entertainment of the lowest common denominator…
I didn't major in Common F-cking Sense, but ...
Completely agree
I only call it news because that’s what people know it as. The local evening news stations are no better. It is the journalism issue that concerns me far more than the folding of newspapers.
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Great post, nice to read something hopeful about basketball for a change!!
by IamPurple on Sep 21, 2011 12:32 PM PDT reply actions 1 recs
Hmmm, should I draft SubZero with my #1 pick, or Mr. Freeze? Decisions, decisions.


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by Shizzo on Sep 21, 2011 6:53 PM PDT up reply actions 1 recs
I asked Ms. bte.
She chose the sub zero

by betweentheeyes on Sep 21, 2011 7:22 PM PDT up reply actions
Affirmation and whimsy all wrapped up a nicely worded package.
Good stuff TZ. Keep that keyboard clacking (or whatever the sound is that keyboards make). This post is like a cool breeze as another long hot summer day without an NBA season start date drags on – a welcome refreshment.
You giving TZ credit for typing Beautiful?
Or did you mess up and think TZ wrote the article because of it’s quality??
Exhibit G wrote this
by HeuristicLineup on Sep 21, 2011 4:53 PM PDT up reply actions
Yes. I messed up
Nice stuff Ex G. TZ – he’s ok too.
by betweentheeyes on Sep 21, 2011 5:02 PM PDT up reply actions
I heard TZ is locking out Ex G and Aykis because he wants a higher share of the revenue.
It was reported by one of those dumb blogs ruining journalism.
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That’s the best compliment I’ve ever gotten.
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Excellent Post
You nicely summed up something I think a lot of people feel about their favored hobby. There is a reason various sports have been important to cultures throughout history. They are a refuge and a way to release the stresses of day-to-day life, and modern life seems to have raised their importance.
Great read. I love it
And I think I just realized why lockouts are the worst thing that can happen to sports. Because when you have a lockout, you find an intersection of worry and escape. Specifically this summer sports fans have been been dealt with the ever-present concern of losing 2 sports seasons this year with the NFL and NBA lockouts. While the NFL averted any lost games (apart from the HOF game in the preseason), the NBA seems much more likely to lose part of or all of the season.
So this summer and fall, instead of enjoying the offseason (a very real part of our escape from the worry of everything on C-Span and CNN) we are watching a CNN-like standoff between two feuding small countries interjected into our escape. And in this small war we have the very real possibility that our we may lose our escape for a year in the same way we have watched the stock market teeter on the edge of another half decade of recession these past weeks.
This, to me, is what makes these lockouts so unbearable as a sports fan.
by nobodyinparticular on Sep 21, 2011 7:18 PM PDT reply actions
Great post and very true
Basketball is a wonderful distraction from all the other hard realities of life and another reason why Sacramento needs to keep this team.
It provides a city hit hard by the economy with needed distraction and when the team continues to improve another reason to believe.
I live in LA now and I know a lot of people here who find happiness and hope in the success of the Lakers despite the fact that they have little bearing on the teams success and it is largely a result of the franchise being in a top 2 market.
I remember when the Kings were an elite team. The Bee ran stories on how it was a business discussion and a point of pride for the city.
I hope that the team can return that sense of hope and passion to the city again.
Excellent, excellent post G
Since I’m not going to go back and re – read them all I’m just going say it’s your best. I stopped reading or watching the news in January of 2009, I’m willfully ignorant and have found that the quality of my life has improved dramatically and that I no longer worry about things I have no control over or meaningful input into. Well all the things I have no control over except the Kings moving or the NBA season being cancelled.
It seems like it’s just been months more than years since my son was your son’s age and he just went off to college. I worried about him when he was 4 and I worry him today, but I worry less than I did because most all of the things I worried about between his ages of 4 and 18 never happened. As Ziller said, beautiful piece of writing.
If you did write a blog about the freezetag league I would probably read it.
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Must...resist...joke...about...LeBron...and...West...
AAAAAARRRRRGGGGHHHHH!!!!!

Thanks, I needed that.
Seriously, though, one of the best parts about pro sports is that it gives us time to get away from all the craptacular idiocy that surrounds us in daily life, and from time to time just feel good about something.
And you’d better get on that freeze tag thing pretty quick, because some schools are beginning to outlaw it on the basis that it makes the slower/fatter kids feel bad because they’re more easily caught.
GrrrrrAAAAAARRRRRGGGGHHHHH!!!!!

Thanks, I needed that.
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